Reffing hockey - part 2

You know, after cooling down a little from this incident and recapturing my thoughts, I see that I've put too much energy in dissecting this occurance. I cannot give this too much attention with my constant negative judgment of the man's behavior. That will never solve the problem. Rather, I must recognize more easily that the problem lies within that person's very being and it's only a misperception of reality he's portraying. Again, it's the ego problem, forgetting that we are so much more than flesh and power. If I easily see this during the very toughest of times, I will naturally "resist no evil" and accept the current situation ... but then forget it immediately and not giving it more attention than it deserves. My needing to prove that I was right was my own ego feeling the need to be seen and heard properly. I wasn't any better in that situation. So what is the solution ? I think the best solution was to accept, not resist, and not say a word or think a thought more of it.